How to Create Your Own Sex Games – For Couples

Remember when you were a kid and all you wanted to do was play games? Remember the fun and pleasure that playing games gave you and how it brought you closer to your friends? Sex games also have a great effect in bringing a couple closer together, not just in their sex life but in their relationship as well.

While there are some sex games available online or in an adult store which you can purchase, many of the best sex games can be quite easy to organise yourself and needn’t require much financial expense.

Three great low cost options for creating a sex game for a couple are:

One of you writes down on piece of paper the brief details of a sexual fantasy or erotic situation. Then that person has to act out what is written and the other person has to try to guess what it is. When they have guessed correctly, swap turns.

Write a few different sexual activities on separate pieces of paper. Then take turns drawing them out of a hat – and acting them out!

When sitting in a restaurant or bar, observe some of the other people around you. Talk together about what you can imagine doing to or with that person (it may even be another couple). Really build up your fantasy (although don’t talk too loudly!).

Another thing couples should remember about sex games is that they can make a great addition to sexual foreplay. Especially for women, the longer the foreplay the better. By introducing one or more games you get the sexual fires starting to smolder. Certainly try to be playful and creative as much as possible in your lovemaking. As we said, being playful was something we all were as children and it is a shame that it is something which adults have lost to a large degree. Sex doesn’t always need to be serious! Add a few games to your sex life and it will do a lot of good for your relationship in general.

If you’re short for ideas for sex games for couples there are a number of websites offering ideas. There are even some games you can purchase online or at an adult store. However, in general the best games, just like when we were children, are often the ones you invent yourself. It doesn’t take too much imagination to come up with some great games. Have fun!

Does Writing About Sex Sell Your Book?

It all depends. What level of readership are you writing for and how are you actually putting these often tricky words to the page? There are many different ways to write about a subject and a lot of the fun when you are a creative writer, is thinking about how you are going to come up with words that are interesting, exciting, relevant, and in good taste. Many writers forget about the latter and it’s crucial.

A majority of books are sold online these days and the readership varies, so choosing the right category from the get go will help readers find the right level of romance or sex that they are comfortable reading about. Books are often categorized by age and for Young Adults you need to go light on the intimate details, but make it interesting at the same time. Teenagers are very much aware of what’s out there and they’ll find the level of fiction that they’re comfortable with.

Choice of words is crucial for Young Adult books, and especially so with romance or sex (or a combo), as well as violence. A couple of samples are pasted below:

Young adult level of romance/sex (excerpt from an upcoming novella in the Vampire Romance category):

She invited me to dinner that time outside of the grocery store. One invitation lasts for a long time.

In an instant, Thor shape shifts to a thick black smoke and eases himself under the door, then reassembles on the other side. He stands still and assesses the situation, then goes quietly over to the windows to make sure the curtains are tight and there’s no gaps. After a moment, he walks over to Jen on the sofa and stands in front of her.

No room here. I have to take her to the bedroom. He caresses her hairline and cheek, then bending over, easily picks her up. After placing her on the bed, he lays down beside her. Jen is wearing her PJs and robe, so Thor eases the thick robe off her shoulders and unties the belt and unbuttons the top of her PJs. For all intents and purposes, she’s dead to the world.

Adult level of romance/sex (excerpt from a novel set in Ancient Egypt):

Meryneith covers his mouth with her hand, then reaching up on her tiptoes, kisses him.

Kemsa manages to balance himself on the side of the wall, and draws her to him, then kisses her cheek and neck and then further down after he slips the strap of her dress off. Using his kilt, she draws him in even closer. She unfastens her other strap and the dress falls to the ground.

So different. So much love, she tells herself.

So different. So much love, he tells himself.

“I forgot to ask you what you wanted to talk about.”

Deep in passion now, Kemsa can merely mumble. “I think all of my questions have been answered.”

After a very few minutes, thunder and then lightning approach and the next big flash of white hot light reveals their intertwined and naked bodies — one luminescent and pale amber and the other the color of a moonless Egyptian night.

Depending on how you write passages, major sections can be crossovers and will work in several genres. Choose your words wisely for the emotions you want to convey, and put a lot of yourself in everything you write.

Phone Sex – The Dangers of Phone Sex For Teenagers in a New Era of Technology

Phone sex used to be something more of a paid service for adults. It wasn’t uncommon for a male teenager to engage in this activity by dialing a 1-900 number after looking through his father’s adult magazine while home alone. This was mainly an impersonal experience and usually the perceived voice was never who was advertised. We all know the cliche jokes on phone sex operators, no need to dig too deep on the subject. Simply, it was more impersonal and costly, but a threat was never there for either party other than a lashing from the father when he got a phone bill.

These days, there are no $3.00 a minute fees, phone sex is free. This activity also no longer belongs to those employed by a sex agency and some unwitting teenage boy, but is now being done by teenage girls, college women, professional women, bachelors, and married men.

What has changed more than who engages in the act of phone sex is the technology it is performed on. Modern day cell phones are acting more and more like personal computers and with camera phones capable of snapshots and video, phone sex is more interactive than ever before. Smartphones allow easier interaction with voice, Internet, video, and text.

What makes phone sex more dangerous than at any other time in the past is the fact that many of transmitted images can be stored and shared with others. The wrong images in the wrong hands can be giving fuel to predators, stalkers, and sex traffickers online, making this dangerous for females as well as males. If your image can be shared with others, then there is a chance your phone number and other personal information can be shared as well making you easy prey. You don’t need to have phone sex with a stranger for a stranger to have your private photos and videos, remember that.

To protect your teenagers from this threat, it may take more than just talking and trust. The only 100% way to make sure your teen is not transmitting x-rated photos of themselves is to not have text or Internet enabled with their cell phone service. Sounds harsh, and it won’t prevent your teen from engaging in this activity on the Internet at home, but then they are at least safe at home, right? Yes, your teenager can still use their phone and say lewd things, but minimizing the tools available to them that enables them to enrich the act with additional media is at least one measure towards protecting your child.

The act of text messaging over a cell phone for sexual purposes is an act now dubbed “SEXTING”. This method can include photo exchanging with image enabled text messaging phones, or phones with the service activated.

The threat with cell phones is that your teen can easily be away from home while engaging and even arranging sexual encounters over the phone. Mobility is the threat and can become much more dangerous when coupled with additional technology. A predator can now verify a victims appearance beforehand, use fake photos of himself to lure the child, and meet up without the child even knowing the truth of that persons age or demeanour.

The scariest statistic on sex predation is that the majority of the rapes that result from the practice of phone and Internet sex are teenage males. The majority of these crimes go unreported due to either humiliation or the fact that the child is exploring their sexuality. Parents tend to keep a more blind eye when it comes to teenage males believing that it is mainly females that fall victim to sexual predators.

Be cautious and aware. This is a new era, and the same old games may result in a bigger loss than a large phone bill.

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Adult Toy Stores – In Person Vs Online

Maybe you’ve never been to an adult book store, but you are ready to get that dildo or vibrator of your dreams. Some of you might have made trips to those raunchy stores in the past and are looking for an alternative. Before you head to your local sex toy store, let’s go over the pros and cons of buying that perfect dildo, rabbit, or butterfly vibrator online.

Like most online shopping; a pro of buying your sex toys online, is that normally you can find better deals, sales, and coupons online. Very rarely can you find these deals in local shops; in fact they are sometimes double the price. The other advantage to buying your sex toys online is that you will have access to a large range of reviews by real people. Doing the proper research before blowing your money on your new vibrating friend is the smart thing to do. Heaven forbid you buy that new butterfly vibrator, or dildo and it doesn’t hit the spot for you!

Besides the obvious, it’s just more comfortable to shop online from home. Not that I am bounding you to your house by any means, but this isn’t like shopping for a new pair of sneakers. You will be more discreet and private when buying those intimate toys at home. Shopping online will allow you to share your inner thoughts and secret comments with your lover, as you sit side by side finding that perfect toy to make you explode.

Most of the online sex stores you find will now allow you to return your items if there is any problem! This is great news my friends, because most local shops will not take any returns. Although returning items might be a pain, taking the time to prepare and mail out the package. You won’t be feeling so bad when your new functioning or exchanged vibrator, dildo, or butterfly vibrator is buzzing.

My only personal con to shopping online for sex toys would be seeing how the toy functions in person. For me the intensity of vibration is extremely important. Thankfully now a lot of stores offer videos of products to give you an idea. We displays great videos of all of their products that have motion. In addition to videos reading the reviews can give you a good idea on how the product functions, intensity, etc. Plus, just watching how your new toy works and vibes might get you a little excited! So enjoy!

Overall I think that it would be better to make your purchase for that hot new butterfly vibrator, right in the comfort of your own home. You will be able to compare prices, look for discounts, and do it all while you’re sitting in your panties. Not only that but you will be keeping private, there is no reason why you need to run into your old high school gym teacher at the porno shop. So get your booty online, and find that dream toy!

A Guide To Online Adult Sex Stores

There are a lot of people that have never been to an adult sex store but they would like to visit one and invest in a sexual toy. There are some people that have been to this style of shop before but they are looking to revisit and invest in a new item to give them pleasure. Before you head off to one of these stores it is important to bear in mind that there is both advantages and disadvantages of purchasing that desired item online.

The online shops are in a position to offer a range of different special offers. The positive aspects of online shops is that they are able to offer better deals and there is also a range of money saving coupons that will be available. It is very uncommon to get good deals in the local high street stores and in most cases the items will cost you a considerable amount more than it would online. Another positive aspect of shopping online is that you can do it in privacy as no one else knows you are shopping in the store and no-one will know what you are purchasing.

It is very important to take time to conduct some research into the items that are available as this will mean that you do not waste your money on an item that is not actually that good. If you are going to purchase a vibrator it is very important that you know what is available so that you can purchase one that will hit the correct spot for you.

It is great to do the shopping from the comfort of your own home and this gives you complete privacy as no-one will know what you are buying and who you are. Shopping for your sex toy online also allows you to open up to your partner and express your feelings. If you make a joint decision and get a sex toy that you both like this will enable you to create a special atmosphere within the body.

Almost all of the online sex stores offer the facility to return items where as local stores in most cases will not allow this. This returns policy is another good reason for shopping online for your sex toy. It can be annoying having to take the time to return the item but this is much better than having faulty item that is really no use.

There is really one main disadvantage when it comes to purchasing your sex toys online and this is that it is hard to handle the item and see exactly how it works. One of the most important things about vibrators is the intensity that it is able to offer. Nowadays there is some video clips on the online shops and these show the working item and give you an idea of what it is like.

It is good idea to purchase a sex toy from the comfort of your home as it will enable you to check the prices and make comparisons. The online sites will also make it possible for your to read reviews which have been written by other customers.

It can be very easy to select products from online sites and it is important to take time to look at various products before making a final decision. It is important to take time to find out how all the different items work as this means that you are able to make an informed decision.

Sex Toys & Relationships

The first step is to talk to your partner about the idea of incorporating adult toys into your relationship. You may have used sex toys in the past for your own personal use and may feel a bit skeptical and worried about how your partner will react to the idea of using sex toys, but do not be! My motto is if you do not ask you do not get, you will probably find they embrace the idea and you can begin searching together for adult toys. If they do not then you can always suggest starting off small with maybe a small finger vibrator or a bit of very light bondage but remember to explain to your partner that toys are a way to add a little spice to the relationship and will not be a replacement for your partner.

Many people will feel embarrassed about going into a sex shop and would not ask a member of staff for help or recommendations. So that is where online adult sex shops are perfect for searching together for adult toys with complete discretion and privacy. A good place to start is to find sex toys that you or your partner will not feel intimidated buy such as a finger vibrator, this way you can work your way up to bigger adult toys.

Once you both feel more comfortable using adult toys together, then you can try more exotic adult toys like bunny vibrators, flesh light toys and anal beads. As a note, it may be worth adding some lubricant with your purchase to stop any unpleasant friction.

When using toys for the first time, make sure you use it gently to find out how your partner likes it best then taking it up a notch, remember to always talk with you partner while using toys as this help to build communication in the relationship and you find out what presses you partner buttons.

As you experiment with different toys you can decide which ones are right for you as a couple. As you become more experienced you will gain enough trust in each other that buying adult toys as gifts will add a whole new excitement to your relationship both in and out the bedroom.

Adult Toy Stores – In Person Vs Online

Maybe you’ve never been to an adult book store, but you are ready to get that dildo or vibrator of your dreams. Some of you might have made trips to those raunchy stores in the past and are looking for an alternative. Before you head to your local sex toy store, let’s go over the pros and cons of buying that perfect dildo, rabbit, or butterfly vibrator online.

Like most online shopping; a pro of buying your sex toys online, is that normally you can find better deals, sales, and coupons online. Very rarely can you find these deals in local shops; in fact they are sometimes double the price. The other advantage to buying your sex toys online is that you will have access to a large range of reviews by real people. Doing the proper research before blowing your money on your new vibrating friend is the smart thing to do. Heaven forbid you buy that new butterfly vibrator, or dildo and it doesn’t hit the spot for you!

Besides the obvious, it’s just more comfortable to shop online from home. Not that I am bounding you to your house by any means, but this isn’t like shopping for a new pair of sneakers. You will be more discreet and private when buying those intimate toys at home. Shopping online will allow you to share your inner thoughts and secret comments with your lover, as you sit side by side finding that perfect toy to make you explode.

Most of the online sex stores you find will now allow you to return your items if there is any problem! This is great news my friends, because most local shops will not take any returns. Although returning items might be a pain, taking the time to prepare and mail out the package. You won’t be feeling so bad when your new functioning or exchanged vibrator, dildo, or butterfly vibrator is buzzing.

My only personal con to shopping online for sex toys would be seeing how the toy functions in person. For me the intensity of vibration is extremely important. Thankfully now a lot of stores offer videos of products to give you an idea. We displays great videos of all of their products that have motion. In addition to videos reading the reviews can give you a good idea on how the product functions, intensity, etc. Plus, just watching how your new toy works and vibes might get you a little excited! So enjoy!

Overall I think that it would be better to make your purchase for that hot new butterfly vibrator, right in the comfort of your own home. You will be able to compare prices, look for discounts, and do it all while you’re sitting in your panties. Not only that but you will be keeping private, there is no reason why you need to run into your old high school gym teacher at the porno shop. So get your booty online, and find that dream toy!

Why Sex Toys Are Good For the Relationship

There are many misconceptions about the use of adult toys in relationships. Some people feel they cannot compete with something that does not get tired, or sore. Those people feel that a toy is going to be their replacement and that they will not be as desirable to their partner.

The truth is the best intimacy comes between two people that care for each other. Their truly is nothing that can replace the physical, emotional, and spiritual connections made during intimacy. As much fun as the jackrabbit 3000 is with its 42 functions and 10-hour battery, it still will not talk to you, it cannot read your body language, and you can forget about the pillow talk and cuddling when you are done.

The reason toys are beneficial is they promote communication between the couple. They also provide a sense of adventure, and the thrill of trying something new and unfamiliar in the bedroom. When used properly, toys can promote the growth and understanding of each others intimate needs.

With a vast selection of toys, there is something out there for you and your partner to try. From mild to wild, you can find something that will help take your relationship to a new and fun level. You have many options when looking for toys. There is no need to visit, “that” store off the highway exit. You can shop discreetly online, or you can host a party with your friends and get a chance to see, feel, touch, and taste the different toys, creams, edibles, and more in the comfort of your own home. You might even make some extra money at your party to pay bills or get a free toy of your own.

So before you dismiss the use of toys, know that they are not meant to replace anything, they are only meant to enhance you and your partner’s intimacy and adventure in the bedroom.

Houston Is A Transformed City After Dark

Rewind a decade back and we dare say that if someone suggested heading downtown Houston after dark, there would be many questions. There were not many reasons why one would actually leave the house for downtown.

Now, a decade later, the scene has changed. Everything’s so much more lively and fun downtown Houston. Charter bus, party bus or even luxury limousines are used for bar hopping adventures, bachelor parties or just a fun time with friends and family members. That is the kind of transformation that has seen Houston’s tourism industry growing by leaps and bounds. Tens of millions of people from out of town and foreign countries make their way here all year round. The pleasant year-long weather has a huge role to play for that decision.

A huge financial push in the real estate industry – One of the biggest reasons for the sudden tourism boom is the real estate industry. More people, more fun, more entertainment. Another great transformation is the pumping of funds into maintaining, developing and promotion of some of the largest tourist attractions in the city like the Minute Maid Park, Toyota Center and not to mention world class parks like the Discovery Green Park.

Bayou, where worlds meet – Although the public transportation system in Houston is mostly reliable and affordable, it makes more sense for large groups to make use of charter buses when visiting crowded attractions during the holidays. Wide acceptance of Houston’s growth was encouraging; hence the emergence of places like Bayou Place. Bayou is a vibrant place which was opened up in 1997 and measures, according to official stats, up to one hundred and thirty thousand square feet in total. It is the place where tourist can find all sorts of entertainment, including theaters, malls, comedy shows, restaurants, cafes, and night spots too. During peak periods, parking can be a huge problem and that is when using a Houston charter bus comes highly recommended.

Mosaic – DJing things up – If you are heading over looking for a fun nightspot, then consider Rocbar or Mosaic. These are DJ hot spots, which mean that there is often a showcase or showdown between talented DJs all year round. It is classy and casual at the same time. Big names in the DJ world has made their way here before in the past and who knows, you might get lucky and get to spend the night listening to a popular DJ spinning the songs out for you all night long while you enjoy your drinks.

Things have definitely changed for Houston and it is really more apparent during the night. No longer are the locals considered low-laying individuals with no time for partying, it is now a vibrant city filled with young people looking out for fun things to do too.

Tips on Finding The Right Toronto Moving Company Or Right Toronto Movers To Help You

It is important to find a professional Toronto moving company because the process of moving to a new home or office can be overwhelming. However, contracting a professional long distance moves company can make anyone anxious no matter where you live. You are entrusting your properties to other people after all.

Hopefully, the tips below will help you find Toronto movers that will make your transition to your new house a happy one.

1. If you check for moving companies online, in newspapers, or from radio and TV ads, be sure to get their office address. It is also better to find addresses that are nearer your old place so that you can check on them easily.

2. The distance of your old place, your new place and the location of the moving company’s garage is important because the company will have to consider travel time and gas expenses.

3. Once you visit the mover company’s office, you can check the quality of its facilities. You can find out if it’s moving trucks are in good condition and what kind of packing equipment it uses.

4. A good moving company will not charge you if you ask for estimates. If it is good, its representatives will visit your old place to have an idea of what kinds of furniture and appliances you need to move. This will help the company figure out what kinds of trucks and equipments to use.

5. Your visits to the movers at their office, and their visits to your home will give you a clue on what kinds of employees they have. A good moving company has employees who are respectful of you and your belongings.

6. Ask the long distance mover company about its insurance policies in case one of your belongings breaks or gets lots in the process.

7. Ask them also for discounts and special promos. Some mover companies have non-peak days like in the middle of the week or the month when their rates are lower.

8. Ask them about how they pack your things. What kinds of boxes do they use? How do they protect your things from breaking? How do they systematize and organize your belongings?

It is important to study a moving company’s services from when it gets your things from your old house to when they unpack your things to your new house.

You will know that you have a good moving company when it has good customer feedback, fair rates and professional crew of drivers and movers.

To know if a moving company’s rates are fair, visit and ask several companies about their rates and services and then compare for the best option. You can also ask your friends who have gotten the services of moving companies before, or check for Internet forums about people’s experiences with local moving companies.

In the end, your experience with moving company will confirm your decisions. Did they make your relocation easier? Or did they add more stress to it?